The greatest mistake you can make as a man is Marry when you are broke

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Calm down and listen , there are women who will marry you when you are broke , but in their minds they have a period of time that they’ll tolerate your poverty .  If after that period you’ve not yet made it , you will see their true colors . You will be disrespected, compared to others out there and your status as the man of the house will be ridiculed .  

Do you think your woman will smile at you when there is no food home , kids hungry , kids driven away for feee and land lord knocking at the door?  Even if they pretend to understand, it will not be forever .  Women do not like men who who have problems.   Do not get yourself into this , depression might finally kpai you .  

Get your money right , marry and care for your woman and kids , don’t fall into the trap of “we can manage “, you’ll see shegeh and question yourself as a man .   As life no easy for you as a single man , imagine how it’ll be with kids and wife and real life challenges 🤦‍♂️🥹.  Yes there are women that come into your life and things change but there are few . It’s risky to depend on luck .  Don’t try it .